When we arrived in Mumbai, we had no definite plans of where we would be going next in India. Steven is a Tibetan Buddhist and was meeting a German friend of his, Anna, in Kathmandu Nepal in a few more days. He invited us along. We were already thinking about going to Nepal after India so we decided to go earlier with him and return to India after. We decided to spend our next few days in India in Bodhgaya before heading to Nepal. There are four very important and auspicious holy places for Buddhists in the world. Three of these are in India and one is in Lumbini in Nepal, where the Buddha was born. Sarnath, near Varanasi in India is where the Buddha gave his first teachings to his first five disciples, ***** is where the Buddha died. Bodhgaya, our next destination, is where the Buddha sat underneath the famous Bodhi tree and He attained enlightenment.
Bodhgaya is in the poorest province in India, Brihar. Which we knew would create quite a contrast coming from the richest one. Our train left at around 8 in the evening and we arrived in Bodhgaya some 30 hours later. We weren’t sure what to expect in terms of the train ride. We had those visions in our heads of hot, unsanitary, overcrowded trains with people hanging out of the barred glassless windows. Well as it turns out that is really what it’s like! Luckily there are different classes available. We travelled 2 AC which is second class sleeper coaches with air conditioned and 4 beds (2 bunk beds) per room (with a curtain for a door). First class doesn’t exist… ok?! And 3rd class is also air conditioned sleeper coaches with 6 beds – sounds a bit closterphobish to us! We found the train to be clean. They serve Chai (Indian Tea) and you hear them coming down the aisle chanting ‘chai, chai, chai…’. Every once in a while they come around with special chai which must have been made with cream rather than milk as it was very much like having dessert! Mmm! Breakfast, lunch and dinner were also offered and surprisingly tasty, pretty good for train food.
In our four-bed coach we had two Indian roommates for the length of the journey, Raj from North India and Vini from South India, who do audits for the Government of India. They spend six to seven months on the road away from their young families travelling all over India every year. They would certainly like to see their families more but they are grateful to have good jobs that allow them to support their families… something many Indians don’t have and dream of having.
From the second we met them we hit it off and had some great chats. They have great pride in their country and their people and loved sharing about their caste systems, arranged marriages, foods, customs, and traditions. We told them about Canada and we enjoyed some great conversations on a number of topics such as on the economy, education and just life in general. Interestingly we share lots of the same views. Ricky taught Raj a dice game that we play every once in a while which they then played and both enjoyed thoroughly. Chatting with Raj and Vinni was so refreshing. They are two very genuine, personable and down to earth gentlemen. It is people like Raj and Vinni whom we meet along the way that we will not forget and who add so much to our travelling experience. We are keeping in contact with them which is quite special.
We were due to arrive in Gaya at 3:45 a.m. from where we would hire an autoricksaw to take us to our Guesthouse in Bodhgaya. Being in the poorest province of India, the crime rate is quite high in Bodghaya. Raj and Vini, who were continuing on to Kalcutta advised us not to leave the train station until sunrise and once in Bodyaha not to be out before dawn or after dusk. This was a bit disconcerting but we just took it as a reminder to be careful. What we’ve learned during our year of travel is that the biggest precaution you can take is to trust you are safe and walk and present yourself with confidence. Of course, travelling as a backpacker also deters thieves as they assume you have nothing of value which has worked out great.
Nothing could have prepared us for the scene in the Gaya train station. There were literally hundreds of homeless people of all ages sleeping on the floor all throughout the station. It was extremely hot and there was a very foul smell. There was no place to wait for sunrise. We felt uncomfortable in this environment and decided to go outside to get the autorickshaw to our guesthouse. This turned out to be quite easy and a lot more endurable than staying in the train station so it seemed…. it was approximately a 30-minute ride to the guesthouse.
The large truck traffic on the roads was very heavy. As in other Asian countries, there is a hierarchy on the roads and the trucks are king. They would drive up to the bumper of our little autorickshaw and honk their big horns to try and force our driver to pull over to let them by, but our driver was on an ego trip himself. He was too busy trying to pass the trucks in front of him who would swerve into the other lane to prevent him from doing so. Then a couple of trucks we met actually swerved towards our lane to force us to the shoulder. I guess these trucks want everyone to know they are the King of the road.
Once the truck traffic finally died down, we found ourselves on the road out in the middle of nowhere in complete black darkness except for the small dim headlight of our rickshaw. Suddenly, the driver pulls over, shuts off the autorikshaw and the headlight….YIKES! I think all our hearts stopped beating for a moment and we thought we were doomed. We then noticed that the driver turned his head towards us and closed high eyes and murmured something to himself. After a few minutes, he started up the rickshaw and turned on the headlight and off we went into the darkness. That is when our hearts finally started beating again! One of us had noticed some kind of smallish animal (black cat) crossing the road in front of us just before he stopped. We assume that the reason for the sudden stop was a superstitious one and he murmured some kind of prayer to ward off any bad luck or something.
After trying to take us to a different guesthouse (to get a commission no doubt which is a very popular scam here in Asia), our driver finally took us to the guesthouse Steven had booked in advance for us which was also a Tibetan Buddhist monastery.
After a few hours sleep, we ventured out into the village. WOW! We could not believe our eyes. We were seeing and experiencing something we had never experienced before. The scene was totally foreign to us.
It’s something we never taught we would experience in real life. There were literally thousands of pilgrims from all over India who filled the main street which leads to the famous Mahabodhi Temple.
Most of the pilgrims were in large groups walking in a single file lead by a leader. It was obvious that many of them were extremely poor. Some people had this look of hopelessness which made us wonder if they were there in desperation praying for a better life. Most men had shaved heads with one longer lock of hair left near the top of their head in the back.
We hardly saw any other foreigners around which really made it a surreal experience. We could not help but look at them in astonishment and they couldn’t help but do the same with us. It felt like we were from two different worlds with whom we have so little in common even to talk about and a language barrier on top of that. This main street was lined with numerous street vendors who seemed to all be selling the same nick nacks.
We found it extremely hot and dusty in Bodhgaya which didn’t entice us to do very much other than visit and spend some time at the main temple.
The Mahabodhi Temple, which is World Heritage-listed, was built in the 6th century AD to mark the spot where the Bhudda attained enlightenment and formulated his philosophy of life under the famous Bodhi Tree.
The main temple in the complex is a huge 50-meter stone-carved pyramid with endless carvings all around. It is directly next to the actual Bhodi Tree which is encircled by a knee-high stone wall and fence.
The temple complex itself is a maze of paths, gardens, shrines, votive stupas, and a beautiful green meditation park. South of the complex is Muchalinda Lake which has a cobra statue in the middle which represents the cobra that is said to have protected the Buddha from a storm while he was meditating in this spot six weeks after his enlightenment.
Walking around in this complex was the most serene experience. It was difficult to take everything in. We had to stop and sit to soak in the ambience. We watched every group of pilgrims do exactly the same thing as they were lead by their leader.
They started by sitting by the lake in a group as they listened to their group leader lecture, then they began to prepare this little balls of what looked like dough and place them on green leaves. They continued to move their way around the main temple as they worked at preparing these balls and listened to their leader, usually a young man shouting and having them shout some responses back… oh! to have been able to speak the language and know what they were saying.
We couldn’t help but notice that almost seemed like they were just going through the motions without real deep meaning or even knowing why. There were several Tibetan Buddhists walking the grounds in their burgundy robes. Many of which did endless numbers of prostrations for hours in a designated area with their robes soaked in sweat.
This temple complex is indeed a special place. We were taken back by the strong energy there, which felt great during the meditations we enjoyed there both around the main temple and in the meditation park, and it was electric at night as the temple was all lit up changing from purple, to yellow, to red.
We ate at the same hotel restaurant down the road where we got to know some of the staff who started doing little extra fun things for us by our fourth day there such as creating shapes with our food!
On our last day we visited a few of the monasteries and temples which several international communities have built in the village and where pilgrims from around the world go to study and meditate. We visited the one from Thailand, Tibet, and Japan. We also paid a visit to the Great Buddha Statue which towers 25 metres high and is quite striking. This statue was unveiled by the Dalai Lama in 1989. It is said that part of this statue is hollow and contains approximately 20,000 bronze Buddhas.
After four days in Bodhgaya, we were than ready to make our way to Kathmandu in Nepal.